How to Build a Connection with God and People

How to Build a Connection with God and People

By Walks With the Lord

In a world that often pulls us in countless directions—toward screens, status, or self-sufficiency—many of us find ourselves longing for real connection. Not just fleeting social interaction, but deep, soul-nourishing relationships: one with God, and meaningful relationships with others. As believers, this longing is a signpost pointing us toward our design. We were created for communion—with our Creator and with one another.

In this blog post, we’ll explore how to build a strong, lasting connection with God and how that relationship flows outward into our connections with others. Through Scripture, reflection, and practical action, we’ll look at how to deepen both our vertical relationship (with God) and our horizontal relationships (with people).

Let’s begin with the foundation.

1. Building a Connection with God

The cornerstone of the Christian faith is relationship—not religion. Jesus did not come to establish a mere set of rituals, but to restore the broken relationship between God and humanity. The connection we have with God is not passive; it is living, dynamic, and must be cultivated.

A. Seek God Daily Through Prayer and the Word

One of the most foundational ways to connect with God is through prayer and Scripture. These are not religious checkboxes—they are the lifelines of relationship.

“Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” – James 4:8 (ESV)

Prayer is conversation with God. Not performance. Not perfect words. Just honest, heartfelt communion. Just as you grow closer to a friend by talking and listening, so too do we grow in our intimacy with God through consistent, vulnerable prayer.

Equally important is immersing yourself in God’s Word. The Bible isn’t just a book—it’s a living message from a living God. Through Scripture, God reveals His nature, His promises, His heart.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” – Psalm 119:105 (ESV)

Practical Tips:

  • Start your day with a quiet time—just 10-15 minutes with your Bible and a simple prayer.

  • Write down verses that speak to your heart and meditate on them throughout the day.

  • Pray aloud or journal your prayers to make them more intentional and personal.

B. Worship in Spirit and in Truth

Worship isn’t limited to Sunday mornings. True worship is a lifestyle—a heart posture of reverence, gratitude, and love toward God.

“But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth.” – John 4:23 (ESV)

Worship includes singing praises, but it also means honoring God in your decisions, actions, and attitudes. When you choose integrity over compromise, kindness over cruelty, or faith over fear, you’re worshiping.

Practical Tips:

  • Play worship music during your commute or while doing chores.

  • Practice gratitude by writing down three things you're thankful for each day.

  • Acknowledge God's presence throughout your day with small moments of praise.

C. Obey and Trust Him

Our relationship with God deepens through trust and obedience. These aren’t burdens but blessings. God’s commands are not for control—they are for our protection and growth.

“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” – John 14:15 (ESV)

Obedience is a way we demonstrate our love for God. When we trust His guidance—even when it’s hard—we open the door to deeper intimacy.

2. Building a Connection with People

Jesus made it clear: loving God and loving people are inseparable.

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart… and… You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” – Matthew 22:37-39 (ESV)

Our love for God should overflow into our relationships with others. The closer we get to God, the more our heart mirrors His love, patience, forgiveness, and humility.

A. Practice Active Listening and Compassion

True connection begins when we really listen—not just to reply, but to understand. Jesus was a master listener. He saw people, really saw them, and He cared deeply about their stories.

“Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” – Philippians 2:4 (ESV)

Compassion means entering someone else's pain, being present, and offering the same grace we’ve received.

Practical Tips:

  • Ask open-ended questions and listen without interrupting.

  • Offer to pray for someone who is struggling—and follow through.

  • Resist the urge to fix; sometimes presence is more powerful than advice.

B. Forgive as You’ve Been Forgiven

Broken relationships are part of our fallen world. But as Christians, we are called to be agents of reconciliation and peace.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” – Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)

Forgiveness doesn’t excuse wrong behavior, but it sets you free from bitterness. It’s not easy—but it’s essential.

Practical Tips:

  • Take time to pray for those who have hurt you, even if it’s just asking God to soften your heart.

  • Write a letter of forgiveness, even if you never send it.

  • Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any hidden resentment and help you release it.

C. Build Community Intentionally

God never intended for us to walk alone. From the beginning, He said, “It is not good for man to be alone” (Genesis 2:18). The early church thrived on deep, authentic community.

“And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together… but encouraging one another.” – Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV)

Intentional relationships require time and effort. But they are worth it.

Practical Tips:

  • Join a Bible study or small group where you can grow and share honestly.

  • Host a simple meal or coffee with someone new from your church or neighborhood.

  • Volunteer together with others—it’s a great way to build bonds through shared purpose.

3. The Cross as the Bridge Between God and People

The cross of Christ is the ultimate symbol of connection. It reaches upward to God and outward to humanity. Jesus’ sacrifice makes connection with God possible—and it empowers us to love others selflessly.

“For through Him we both have access in one Spirit to the Father.” – Ephesians 2:18 (ESV)

It’s at the cross where we find our identity, receive grace, and are filled with the Spirit that helps us love beyond our own capacity.

Final Thoughts: A Life of Connection

A life rooted in connection with God naturally blossoms into a life of connection with others. The more we know Him, the more we reflect His love. The more we love others, the more we live out our faith.

In a culture of superficial contact, God calls us to something deeper—relationship, not transaction; presence, not performance; connection, not convenience.

We’d Love to Hear From You!

What are some ways you’ve found helpful in building your connection with God? Have you struggled to connect with others in a meaningful way? What has helped you overcome that?

We invite you to share your thoughts in the comments below. Your story could encourage someone else who is on the same journey.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for being a God who desires relationship with us. Help us to draw near to You each day, to seek You in prayer, in Your Word, and in our worship. Teach us to trust and obey You with hearts full of love.

Lord, as we grow closer to You, let that love overflow into our relationships with others. Give us grace to forgive, wisdom to listen, and courage to build real community. Break down the walls of isolation and help us be agents of Your peace and presence in this world.

May our lives reflect the beauty of connection—with You and with those You place in our path. We give You all the glory.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Until next time, keep walking with the Lord.
— Walks With the Lord

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